Marriage Counseling Washington
Marriage Counseling Washington | Online Sex Therapy for Washington Couples
Rebuild Connection, Deepen Intimacy, and Strengthen Your Relationship
Marriage and long-term relationships aren’t always easy. Over time, many couples drift apart, lose their spark, or get stuck in unproductive cycles—constant bickering, emotional withdrawal, mismatched libidos, or just feeling like roommates. You may feel like your needs aren’t being heard, your partner doesn’t really “get” you anymore, and your efforts to fix things keep falling flat.
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out alone, either.
I’m Marina Stanton, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and AASECT-certified sex therapist offering secure, HIPAA-compliant online therapy for couples across Washington state. I help couples rebuild emotional connection, communicate more effectively, and develop a sexual relationship that feels safe, exciting, and aligned with their values.
Who I Work With as a Washington Marriage Counselor
I specialize in helping couples across Washington state who are:
Stuck in frustrating communication patterns that leave them feeling misunderstood
Struggling with mismatched sexual desire or sex that feels awkward, pressured, or nonexistent
Trying to heal after betrayal or emotional disconnection
Navigating faith transitions, parenting challenges, or major life shifts
Wanting to reconnect emotionally and physically but unsure where to start
Many of my clients come from conservative or religious backgrounds and want to honor their values while building a more connected relationship. I offer a nonjudgmental space where both partners can feel safe, seen, and heard—no matter how long you’ve been struggling or how different your needs are.
What Makes My Approach to Marriage Counseling and Sex Therapy Unique
As both a licensed couples therapist and a certified sex therapist, I bring expertise in emotional and sexual connection into every session. These two areas are deeply interconnected, and addressing one without the other often leaves couples stuck. That’s why I help you explore how the same patterns that show up in your bedroom—withdrawal, pressure, avoidance, resentment—often echo in your day-to-day interactions, and vice versa.
I use the Developmental Model of couples therapy, which emphasizes emotional maturity, accountability, and differentiation (the ability to stay connected while still being fully yourself). I believe that neither partner is “the problem.” Instead, I focus on the way you interact—because that’s where lasting change happens.
My style is direct, compassionate, and collaborative. I’ll challenge you when needed, celebrate your growth, and equip you with actionable tools you can start using right away. I also assign meaningful homework between sessions to help you apply what we talk about and keep building momentum.
Meet Your Therapist: Online Marriage Counselor & Sex Therapist for Washington Couples
Hi! I’m Marina Stanton. I became a therapist because I know what it feels like to be in a relationship that’s not working—and not know how to fix it. Even after reading all the marriage books and doing “everything right,” I found myself unprepared for the realities of long-term partnership and intimacy. That personal journey fuels my passion for helping others find real, lasting connection—emotionally, sexually, and relationally.
I’m an LMFT and an AASECT-certified sex therapist (a distinction that requires rigorous training and supervision). Unlike most therapists, I’m equipped to help you navigate both your relational dynamics and your sexual concerns without shame, discomfort, or avoidance.
I’m known for using analogies, humor, and visuals to simplify complex topics. I believe in doing deep work, but I also believe therapy should feel engaging and relevant—not like just venting. I’ll help you explore how your past experiences influence your current behaviors, and how to break the patterns that are keeping you stuck.
In addition to working with couples across Washington, I’m licensed in Colorado, Texas, and Utah, and see clients in person at my Centennial, CO office.
Why Washington Couples Start Counseling With Me
“We don’t talk anymore without fighting.”
“We feel more like roommates than lovers.”
“We can’t agree on how often to have sex—or if we even want it anymore.”
“I don’t feel seen or heard, and I’m not sure how to ask for what I need.”
“We’ve lost the fun, the spark, and the intimacy—and we want it back.”
Whether you’re on the brink of giving up or simply want to deepen your connection, marriage counseling can help you:
Feel understood, appreciated, and respected by your partner
Improve how you communicate, even during conflict
Explore and repair your sexual connection without pressure or shame
Rebuild trust, especially after betrayal or long-term disconnection
Develop a relationship that feels vibrant, secure, and aligned with your values
Online Marriage Counseling in Washington: Private, Convenient, Effective
Wherever you are in Washington—Seattle, Spokane, Tacoma, Bellingham, Vancouver, or anywhere in between—you can access expert marriage counseling and sex therapy online. My secure, HIPAA-compliant platform lets you attend therapy from the comfort of your home, no commute or awkward waiting rooms required.
Online therapy gives couples more flexibility and consistency. Whether you’re parenting young kids, juggling work schedules, or just want to meet from a place you feel safe and relaxed, virtual therapy can make it easier to prioritize your relationship.
Marriage Counseling Washington
Services Offered
Couples Counseling
Sex Therapy
Premarital Counseling
Speaking Engagements
Ready to get started?
Start Working With an Expert Marriage Counselor in Washington
Marriage counseling isn’t about choosing sides—it’s about changing patterns. If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck and start reconnecting, I’d love to help. Reach out today to schedule your free consultation and take the first step toward the relationship you want.
FAQs | Couples Counseling Washington & Sex Therapy in Washington
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No. I’m based in Colorado, I offer online sex therapy for individuals and couples in Washington state, using a secure, HIPAA-compliant video platform.
This virtual format allows you to access high-quality therapy from the comfort of your home or office—no commute, traffic, or parking hassles. And for many of my Washington based clients, that’s a huge benefit.
In fact, I’ve found that many couples actually prefer online therapy. It helps them feel more at ease, makes difficult conversations feel a little less intimidating, and allows for consistent scheduling even during busy seasons. So while you don’t need to live near my office, you can still receive specialized, compassionate, and effective care tailored to your relational and sexual goals.
You are always welcome to schedule with me at my Centennial, CO office if you happen to be in the area!
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I work with couples and individuals throughout Washington—especially those seeking support around sex, intimacy, and relationship concerns. Many of my clients are in long-term partnerships or marriages and are motivated to grow—not just “fix” a problem.
I have particular expertise working with faith-based clients, including those from Christian or religiously conservative backgrounds. If you grew up with restrictive or confusing messages about sex, it’s common to carry guilt, shame, or uncertainty into adulthood and marriage. In our work together, you’ll have the opportunity to honor your values while reexamining the parts of your sexual story that are no longer serving you.
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Marriage counseling typically focuses on the emotional and relational aspects of your partnership—like communication, conflict, and trust. Sex therapy specifically addresses challenges related to desire, arousal, pleasure, or sexual dysfunction. Because I’m trained in both, I don’t separate the two unnecessarily. In my experience, what’s happening sexually is often a reflection of what’s happening emotionally—and vice versa. I can help you understand and shift the full picture.
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Yes—and you're not alone. Most couples I work with say they don’t feel heard or understood. They’re stuck in repetitive arguments or feel like they’re walking on eggshells. Often, each person feels like their needs aren’t being met but doesn’t know how to express those needs in a way their partner can hear. I help you break these cycles by teaching more effective ways to communicate—ways that help you stay honest without being hurtful, stay open without losing yourself, and actually feel seen by your partner.
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This is one of the most common reasons couples come to sex therapy—and no, it doesn’t mean anything is “wrong” with either of you. I help couples understand the complex factors that influence desire and guide you in creating a sexual relationship that feels good and authentic to both of you.
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That’s incredibly common. Many people worry therapy will be about blaming one partner or labeling someone as “the problem.” That’s not how I work. I focus on the dynamics between you—not assigning blame to either of you. Often, when hesitant partners learn that I’m not here to pick sides, but to help you both feel understood and supported, they feel more open to the process.